Secrets of Happy Families

Lisa Franchi December 15, 2014

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For the past years, there’s mounting evidence that British children have greater levels of unhappiness compared than those from other developed countries.

Teaching our children how to be happy is one of the best things we can do for them. By making their childhood revolve around happiness, they can become healthier and more compassionate individuals who will do the same to their future kids. And the cycle continues.

But the question is – what makes a happy family? What can you do to instil a great sense of happiness to your children?

They celebrate.

Happy families celebrate each other. They don’t wait for special occasions like birthdays or Christmas to gather and celebrate. Quality time is important to keep the fun and laughter revolving in your home. Celebrations provide a venue to laugh, share stories, open up, and just be with one another.

They communicate.

Happy families pay attention to each other. They ask each other about their day, and are always interested in knowing the answer. They keep the line open – sharing their thoughts and feelings to one another. Commination is essential to keeping any relationship healthy. When family members listen to one another, they feel valued and respected for their ideas and insights. Children who grow up in a family where communication is valued become understanding and communicative adults.

They value commitment.

The most important trait of strong, happy families is commitment. It is investing time and energy in family activities and not letting work or other priorities take too much time away from family interaction. Families that value help helping one another succeed and be that someone they want to be.

They are not hesitant to show appreciation.

Another secret of strong and happy families is appreciation. While everyone has flaws and imperfections, they don’t fail to recognise each other’s positive traits. Strong families focus on the strengths of one another, not in their weaknesses. Parents always encourage their children to do better each day through positive reinforcement.

They have spirituality.

Families who have strong spirituality survive any challenge they face. Spirituality is defined as the caring centre within each individual that promotes sharing, love and compassion. It is a powerful force that drives them to overcome their stressors, focus on what is right and just, and practice compassion every single day.

They have good coping skills.

Problems are part of growing a family. There’s no perfect family. Each one has their own battles to face. Members of strong families demonstrate the ability to stand strong amidst the test of time. Through communication and a positive outlook, a family can deal with difficult times and overcome any crisis.

They put family above things.

Happy families value their relationship more than anyone else. While they understand that friendships are important to their well-being, they prioritise keeping their relationship as a family more than anything else. It’s because they understand that being a good family member makes them a good friend and a good person for others.

What is the best trait of your family that you have always been very proud of? We’d like to hear your thoughts. Feel free to leave your comment below.