7 Risks that are Worth-Taking in Life

Lisa Franchi November 20, 2014

We all go through a point in life when we are faced with the big question – Should I do this or should I not? Taking risks can really be overwhelming sometimes, especially if it involves going through a big change. But there are risks that are really worth-taking. They are worth-taking because they can make us a better, healthier and happier person.

Below are the major risks you can choose to take now, that you will never regret:

Speaking up.

Often at work, we choose to be just a plain listener – digesting every information our colleagues provide. Some people tend to have this notion that their ideas are not good enough, so they choose to be silent and just keep their opinions inside. It can really be scary sharing your points of view with other people, especially your bosses. But never let your inner critics take control of you. Let your voice be heard. Who knows, your bright ideas may actually pave the way towards the company’s long waited success.

Being yourself.

Not being yourself can lead to regrets, resentments and helplessness. Showing your true colours is one of the greatest risks you can take that are really worth-taking. Being who you truly are make you more powerful than you ever thought possible, enabling you to do things your way.

Doing things solo.

Are you the kind of person who couldn’t eat alone or go out alone? Research shows we’d rather be in pain than do fun things. Sitting in a restaurant or seeing a movie alone may sound utterly painful. But being alone and doing the things you love can be a perfect opportunity to spend quality time with yourself. Try going for a trip alone. You will see it’s not really that bad as you think.

Taking a vacation.

We live in a workaholic world. We spend over 8 hours every day working, and we even take our office tasks at home. And in weekends, we still check our work email. Have you been intending to take a break and visit a place our country you’ve never visited before? Now could be the perfect moment. Happiness is in the content of moment-to-moment experience. Studies show that the new experiences we get from travel and leisure can actually make us happier.

Saying “no”.

Many of us are afraid to say “no” because we are worried that we may disappoint our family, friends or colleagues. Even if the situation is already hurting us, we still say “yes” so others would be pleased by us. But the thing is that we can never please every single person. Worse, saying “yes” all the time can make us feel sad and lonely in the end.

Choosing to be imperfect.

If you’re always in the pursuit of perfection, you will never be happy. The moment you stop to look for perfections in things and people you meet – the more you will appreciate every little thing you experience in life. And as you do this, the more you will be happier. Today, try to tolerate other people’s mistakes. Sometimes, good people make bad choices. Don’t run away from committing mistakes or facing failures. Realise that they are the only ways to learn. Replace imperfection with endless playful exploration.

Allowing yourself to be vulnerable.

We often choose to close our hearts and minds, not because we don’t trust others to hurt us, leave us, or let us down, but because we are afraid that we may not overcome the pain when they do. Holding back your emotions will never help you detach from them. Dealing with your emotions with love, sincerity and acceptance is the only way to free your mind and give it peace.